THREE THINGS

EMPRESS

Three things in life that never comes back when gone:

Time

Words

Opportunity

Three things in life that should never be lost:

Peace

Hope

Honesty

Three things in life that is most valuable:

Prayer

Love

Faith

Three things in life that makes a person:

Hard work

Sincerity

Commitment

Three things that can destroy a person:

Lust 

Pride

Anger

Three things that is constant:

God

Change

Death

                        WHATEVER YOU BELIEVE IN SHALL BE TESTED

                                DON'T JUST READ, THINK ABOUT IT

LETTING GO

As silence fills my loneliness
Only for you my heart cries
The growing gnawing  pain within myself
That tears every senses of my life.
Tears flow endlessly
Even my eyes swells in deep agony
But nothing had been left
That I burned even more with desire
Just to feel the warmness of your embrace.
I still have the memories when we first met
Memories that I thought would just be the beginning
And would never end
But suddenly it was gone with  the wind.
I always say I LOVE YOU
Deep inside my heart I do
Thinking that you feel the same way too
That even we’re miles away we can make it through
I felt my world shattered like a glass
One day when you told me that I was just a back up
And that you are still in search of your perfect match
For someone you can marry even when there’s no real LOVE.
I have been waiting for a chance
Hoping that one day you would realize and understand
I gave you everything that I have
Just to let you know that I love you so much
You have closed your door to me indeed
Even if I was just trying to talk , just being a FRIEND
Then I realized,Perhaps I was  obsessed and was pushing myself  to you…
And now, I need to say goodbye and Let go.

SUCCESSFUL SPEAKER

1. Be Yourself

It's great to watch other successful speakers, to see what they do and how they do it. To be a great speaker in your own right requires you to develop your own style, to speak using your own voice. Be yourself when you speak and you can't help but be successful.

2. Be Bold

You might think that it takes boldness just to stand up and start talking, and it does, but there are plenty of speakers out there who come across like timid mice. Be bold as a speaker, confident in your abilities. Practice every day, give speeches whenever you can. The more you practice, the perfect you become.

3. Be different

Successful speakers aren't like everybody else. There's something that sets them apart. Makes them stand out. They're the speakers who do more than just stand in the front of the room and talk at you.

4. Be funny

Successful speakers know how to be funny, that is: they know when and where to use humor in their presentations... and they aren't afraid to do so. 

5. Be engaging

Listening to a speech is, for most people, a passive activity. Successful speakers involve their audiences and converse with them so that it's a conversation, not a talking-to.

6. Be positive

No matter what the subject, successful speakers are always positive with their audiences. They help their audiences learn what to do as opposed to what NOT to do. They focus on the upside, not the downside.

7. Be challenging.

Lastly, great speakers always challenge their audiences to do great things. And again, it doesn't matter what the subject. A successful speaker gives you the know-how and the challenge to make your life more enjoyable and more rewarding everyday.

Remember, if you don't appreciate what you have, it will depreciate.
Life is all about realizing what you want to be and how to implement it. and you have to start from somewhere. Again, we learn from what we know to the unknown..

WHAT EVERY GUY SHOULD KNOW

Smile for a good first impression
 
First impressions occur within the first three seconds of meeting someone. To feel your best when making your own first impressions, be sure to smile, whether you feel happy or not.

It's free and it's fast. And research suggests that smiling may improve your mood, slash stress, boost your immune system, and lower blood pressure.

Pursue goals with passion
Passion can be a vital key to success. Research shows that high achievers have a strong interest in their work and passion for their goals.

To find where your passions lie, "Think about what you loved as a child," suggests Oregon life coach Joy Hatch. "What excites you? Makes time stand still? Discover what feels like play and you've found your passion."

Accentuate the positive
Staying positive can keep your body humming. It can slow signs of aging and even help you bounce back after a bout of sickness.

Tips for staying positive: Remember what's working in your life, evaluate what isn't, and keep moving forward.

Get a move on
Want to stay mentally sharp, sleep great, and reduce your risk of depression? Get moving.

Research shows that about 120 to 150 minutes of aerobic and muscle-strengthening activity a week can help you control your weight, strengthen your muscles -- even live longer.

Mind your (Table) manners
Put your best fork forward at meal time. Good table manners show that you're a class act and you think your friends are, too.

Top table manners to cultivate include maintaining good posture, chewing with your mouth closed, using your napkin, and excusing yourself from the table when you get up.

Keep it clean
Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired? Scrub up! Wash your hands for 20 seconds before you cook or eat, and after you use the restroom.

It's one of the most important ways to avoid colds and flu all year long. If you don't have soap and water handy, use an alcohol-based sanitizer.

Smell good
Give your confidence a boost by smelling your best. Smelling good can make you feel even better, which makes you more attractive to others.

Wear clean clothing and shower regularly -- especially after a strenuous workout. Find a great cologne, shampoo, and deodorant whose scents don't clash.

Keep your breath minty fresh by caring for your teeth and gums as your dentist recommends.

Dress the part
Looking sharp shows that you're prepared. To dress for success, start with a black, grey, or navy suit.

Add coordinated socks, a matching tie, and dark, polished shoes. Go easy on the cologne. Your hair and nails should be neat and clean. Keep jewelry and other accents low-key.

Be kind and polite

We all need good relationships to be happy. Being kind to those around you shows you value them as people.

It makes you feel better about yourself, too. Practice being polite. Develop compassion. You'll impress others and boost your own well-being.

Take time to be timely
Punctuality shows people you're in control and that you respect them -- all before you ever say a word.

Set yourself up for timely success. Use calendars and schedule reminders. Prepare for important events and meetings the night before.

Estimate how much time a task will take and plan for bumps in the road, like rush-hour traffic.

Gain from giving
Carving out time to volunteer can benefit you, both mentally and physically. People who regularly volunteer report higher levels of happiness, self-esteem, and purpose -- and lower levels of depression.

Studies also show that people who give of themselves tend to live longer and enjoy stronger relationships.

Take time off
Want to succeed and actually enjoy your success? Take a break from time to time. If you think vacation time means wasted time, think again.

Taking time to recharge not only renews your energy for work, but it can also help you avoid health problems related to stress and anxiety.

LOL: Laugh out loud

A loud, hard laugh actually is good medicine, for your heart especially. Research shows that laughter helps keep your arteries fine tuned, which keeps heart attacks and heart disease at bay.

Enjoy a funny film or see a comedy show with friends. Add laughter to your daily health routine.

Practice manly moderation
Doing things in moderation shows you're in control. Overdo it and you suffer the consequences.

Eat right (more fruits and vegetables), drink responsibly (no more than two alcoholic drinks a day), and get at least 30 minutes of exercise on most days of the week.

Learn to love the long run
Maybe your perfectly balanced, successful life didn't happen today. It might not happen tomorrow, either.

That's fine. Success comes when you keep striving for what you want while appreciating the success you already have. Love the long run. 
Remember, first impressions are not always correct. but you will never get the second chance to make the first impressions right...

DON'T WASTE YOUR TOMORROW THINKING ABOUT YESTERDAY.

If you don't forget about your past, you can never embrace your future. If you are not careful,
The past will hold you. The more you look backward, the less you are able to look forward.
The past is not the only determining factor of what God can do for you today.
The more you look backward, the less you are able to look forward. The past is past; it has no life.
Forget about the past. We should choose to be forward focused, not past possessed and to
Invest in the future. Paul said, "forgetting those things which are behind in order to reach for the
high calling of God in Christ Jesus". Philippians 3:13-14. Bear in mind that the past does not equal the
future. Where there is a will, there is always a way.
The past makes us who we are; don't make it your burden. Free yourself and make light your burden.

INCOMPLETE

the grey sky looming above,
rain drops still dripping down
from the pregnant clouds above,
we set out on our journey once again;

around and around we go
in slow circles, moving
to the beat of the thunder
and rain that surrounds us;

as the droplets hit the ground,
shattered realizations lay scattered
reminding me nothing is same
as it seems to be;

as another memory turns to dust
i cut the lifeline that attaches me to the past
and i shove it back into the depths
where nothing will ever bring it back alive;

the rain does nothing to stop our journey,
never forgetting, who we are
we walk these streets of madness,
knowing that,without each-other…..
we are simply incomplete.

SORRY

Being sorry can be very hard when we're overwhelmed with pride,
But sometimes our pride must take a fall before we lose out,
And when we have to say sorry we should mean it from our soul,

A meaningless sorry is like a broken promise to the heart.

And it only hurts more in the end, bringing bitter resentment,
And leading to the loss of a love that should be eternal,
Bringing us back down to earth from the fairytale world of our mind,
With a pain that is maddening, physical and sometimes critical.

My heart is weeping tears of blood for the pain that I've caused you,
And it's crying out my apologies to your mind,
Pleading for your forgiveness for my unfortunate outbursts,
I never meant, in a million years, to be so unkind.

I have made mistakes in the past but never as serious as this,
And I know I will only have myself to blame if you leave,
And that scares me more than I've ever been scared in my life,
For you're my true motivation, the only real thing in which I believe.

Everything else is just a fantasy to my egotistical ideals,
It's always been me, me, me for far too long,
And lately I haven't given even a passing thought to your concerns,
I let them all fly past me, but now I know I was wrong.

You were reaching out to me in your time of uncertainty and sorrow,
While all I cared about was me and what was mine,
And as I watch you pack your bags with tears streaming down my cheeks,
Too late, I feel all your angst and pain.

And all that's left for me to do is say sorry in a sincere way,
With an apology that comes from deep inside my soul,
It's all I have left to offer for your love and your loyalty,
It's just a pity that my own loyalty, I couldn't hold.

Now all I have left of you are the memories of the goodness I have lost,
And that loss brings a sadness every time I think of your name,
And my heart yearns to be able to turn back the hands of time,
To correct the mistakes I've made and start again.

So please take time to think about what I've said, as it comes from the heart,
Take time and try to forgive me my failure to deliver,
And if you can't, then cast me out of your life never to return,
And i promise never to disturb you again.
Inside my heart, i keep a little box... it is a box of memories i created about you..
What we shared together will forever remain a scar in my memory...